tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5623792489158195598.post584146881767781249..comments2024-01-31T10:41:53.074-05:00Comments on Keith's Space: Drama-Free RelationshipsKeithhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17325582825431855883noreply@blogger.comBlogger26125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5623792489158195598.post-38844119549658256302008-11-16T15:11:00.000-05:002008-11-16T15:11:00.000-05:00Hmmm...I agree, Keith. Lots of interesting comment...Hmmm...I agree, Keith. Lots of interesting comments here so I'll just say that I'm "keeping hope alive" that the next man will be a drama-free one :).♥ CG ♥https://www.blogger.com/profile/06312573343401136201noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5623792489158195598.post-22237454897542170262008-11-15T14:29:00.000-05:002008-11-15T14:29:00.000-05:00Well said, bruh... Very well said.I do believe som...Well said, bruh... Very well said.<BR/><BR/>I do believe some people love drama. Heck, it's all in our music, our media... it's almost expected.<BR/><BR/>great post!LadyLeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14895667783148669410noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5623792489158195598.post-57607722931540904062008-11-13T16:17:00.000-05:002008-11-13T16:17:00.000-05:00@SLC: Tacky is putting it mildly, I was apart from...@SLC: Tacky is putting it mildly, I was apart from someone I cared about and they sent me an email by mistake, one that outlined a 'hookup', we hadn't been together in a while, and I didn't expect her to 'wait' for me, but I was really angry because I felt like it was very insensitive on her part. Plus it was kind of a don't ask don't tell thing at the time, only to receive a detailed 'hookup' correspondence.<BR/><BR/>she did say something to the effect that she was saving it for when I came home, even though It wasn't a huge deal if she met her needs somewhere else seeing I was away for so long.<BR/><BR/>I just felt like it was being rubbed in my face.<BR/><BR/>I am over it, but I won't say it didn't hurt my feelings.Somebodies Friendhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13829397543895002523noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5623792489158195598.post-74675035829375275852008-11-12T17:52:00.000-05:002008-11-12T17:52:00.000-05:00I think everyone's relationship experiences drama ...I think everyone's relationship experiences drama at one point or another; however, the main issue is the occurance of the drama and to what extent.<BR/><BR/>Men and women are both going to lie at the begining of the relationship...that's just how we are. We are sweet, giving, romantic, and more willing to do sexual antics...as time goes on, all of that goes down the drain and the drama comes up.Beautifully.Conjured.Uphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07406790625325877853noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5623792489158195598.post-9519895217218877382008-11-12T15:18:00.000-05:002008-11-12T15:18:00.000-05:00Man Keith, I just finished telling my friends how ...Man Keith, <BR/><BR/>I just finished telling my friends how easy my relationship is with TOM A. Maybe the easiest I have ever had in my life. <BR/><BR/>I told them it was easy and I was happy and I haven't been that way with a man in a long time. Even when we disagree its not drama. Or when something upsets me I feel I can tell him and he doesn't dismiss my feelings just listens.<BR/><BR/>I do think things can be drama free, but it takes honesty and grown up behavior on both parts. And realistic expectations as well. <BR/><BR/>Great blog!<BR/><BR/>-OGOG, The Original Glamazonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17041450250560458185noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5623792489158195598.post-82794247139602003252008-11-12T12:57:00.000-05:002008-11-12T12:57:00.000-05:00I do think some people bring the drama with them a...I do think some people bring the drama with them and/or create unnecessary drama when there isn't any. THEN, they COMPLAIN about the drama...lol...I don't get it.<BR/><BR/>I think in some cases you'll have someone who doesn't show you who they really are in the beginning, but MOST OF THE TIME, the signs are there.Jazzyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01186973972482369982noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5623792489158195598.post-77571002652015278362008-11-12T11:19:00.000-05:002008-11-12T11:19:00.000-05:00When I think of drama, I think of fiction. When I ...When I think of drama, I think of fiction. When I think of fiction, I think of lies. When I think of lies I think of drama. <BR/><BR/>Problem is, you can only help what you say, not what someone else hears.<BR/><BR/>I mean my friend had a girl pay him a surprise 1st time visit. Well this girl who had been ignoring him for a while WENT OFF cause she saw a used condom on the floor. Now that was tacky on the dude's part, but apparently she heard him say I'm saving all my love for you. DRAMA just because <I>she heard</I> something <I>he never said.</I>SLChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06730433154344252585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5623792489158195598.post-334125012747873952008-11-12T10:52:00.000-05:002008-11-12T10:52:00.000-05:00I've had one drama free relationship. We were both...I've had one drama free relationship. We were both open with each other about our relationship. We weren't exclusive but we knew where we stood with each other.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5623792489158195598.post-12803247128596554062008-11-12T10:35:00.000-05:002008-11-12T10:35:00.000-05:00This was right on point...I think I didn't really ...This was right on point...<BR/><BR/>I think I didn't really know what I wanted until this year... so dating for me has been just going threw the motions... and now that I know what I want... my dating life doesn't exist... <BR/><BR/>so yes some women settle because they feel like this is the best they are going to get and would rather do that than be alone.<BR/><BR/>There are so many levels to this and so much in here that I will just stop thereEb the Celebhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12920888116302185562noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5623792489158195598.post-33503939532885898362008-11-12T10:28:00.000-05:002008-11-12T10:28:00.000-05:00good post!i think we all have some drama that just...good post!<BR/><BR/>i think we all have some drama that just comes with us. some of it...we can't control (i.e family). i think we need to be more realistic about what we will and won't tolerate before we get in a relationship12kylehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11639316610856750674noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5623792489158195598.post-17708162736818849722008-11-12T09:53:00.000-05:002008-11-12T09:53:00.000-05:00I think it worked for "Juan" because he was open a...I think it worked for "Juan" because he was open and honest up front. he did not lead the woman to believe she was the one and only. A lot of times drama happens when someone lies about their intentions. That is when you see women do things outside of their character because they opened themselves up to believe that a man is being truthful and really wants to have a meaningful relationship. So a man can't be mad when he sees his car windows busted, or his front door painted, or all of his nice church suits cut up in small pieces...I'M JUST KIDDING!!!!!!<BR/><BR/>Great postMehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12183428153289658977noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5623792489158195598.post-89111233119669375742008-11-12T08:59:00.000-05:002008-11-12T08:59:00.000-05:00Very interesting...As I read your blogs, I think i...Very interesting...As I read your blogs, I think it's a good thing that you had so many expereiences and friends that had so many dramatic experiences before you met your wife. I believe that the reason why your relationship is "drama free" because you had a chance to see that there's nothing out there but drama when you misrepresent yourself. so that's a little lesson in itself right there.<BR/><BR/>Now on another note, some of us who were once used to dramatic relationships go through a period once we become engaged in a "drama free" relationship where we are suspicious of the other party or just waiting for the drama to errupt. So while I don't think that an open relationship is a good idea, I do think that open lines of communication are necessary to limit the drama in the relationship.Shanita Watershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01655953692309560389noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5623792489158195598.post-33583452828912436762008-11-12T08:54:00.000-05:002008-11-12T08:54:00.000-05:00@Toni & Angie B- Honesty, Patienceand a lot of...@Toni & Angie B- Honesty, Patience<BR/>and a lot of luck-lololololAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5623792489158195598.post-15282203117378901632008-11-12T08:29:00.000-05:002008-11-12T08:29:00.000-05:00Everybody hates drama, but as Lisasaid-"Life is dr...Everybody hates drama, but as Lisa<BR/>said-"Life is drama" and "Drama is life."Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5623792489158195598.post-59995704041360099062008-11-12T08:28:00.000-05:002008-11-12T08:28:00.000-05:00I am in a new relationship now and we are trying t...I am in a new relationship now and we are trying to experiment with being non-exclusive..I think everybody involved has to be on board with that for it to work.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5623792489158195598.post-89432028118777937722008-11-12T08:27:00.000-05:002008-11-12T08:27:00.000-05:00Another Great Post Brother Keith.Congradulations t...Another Great Post Brother Keith.<BR/>Congradulations to you on having a<BR/>successful marriage...I'm trying to get to where you are.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5623792489158195598.post-25164266636948998192008-11-12T07:24:00.001-05:002008-11-12T07:24:00.001-05:00That's why I'm a playa..No drama-lololol...Just ki...That's why I'm a playa..No drama-<BR/>lololol...Just kiddin yall.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5623792489158195598.post-31040681047785021272008-11-12T07:24:00.000-05:002008-11-12T07:24:00.000-05:00@Sunflower-I would like to know myself-lolol@Sunflower-I would like to know myself-lololAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5623792489158195598.post-33946472467002267072008-11-12T07:23:00.001-05:002008-11-12T07:23:00.001-05:00@Sunflower- Girl what is your secret?@Sunflower- Girl what is your secret?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5623792489158195598.post-49708728345707437702008-11-12T07:23:00.000-05:002008-11-12T07:23:00.000-05:00Believe it or not ,I've had a few"Drama proof' rel...Believe it or not ,I've had a few<BR/>"Drama proof' relationships..We had full disclosure and we stuck to our terms.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5623792489158195598.post-23499307043446923362008-11-12T07:22:00.000-05:002008-11-12T07:22:00.000-05:00We all wish we could drama proof our relationships...We all wish we could drama proof our relationships but life is drama,drama is life, what can we do..that's just how it is sometimes.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5623792489158195598.post-61555519207321088302008-11-12T07:21:00.000-05:002008-11-12T07:21:00.000-05:00@Angie B- lololol-You're foul, you know that right...@Angie B- lololol-You're foul, you know that right?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5623792489158195598.post-4748016883185727842008-11-12T07:20:00.001-05:002008-11-12T07:20:00.001-05:00@Toni-I wish you had too and I'd still have my apa...@Toni-I wish you had too and I'd still have my apartment to myself-lololol.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5623792489158195598.post-91178046295002707732008-11-12T07:20:00.000-05:002008-11-12T07:20:00.000-05:00I wish I could've drama proofed my marriage.I wish I could've drama proofed my marriage.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5623792489158195598.post-64019053773693755522008-11-12T00:29:00.000-05:002008-11-12T00:29:00.000-05:00I hate all that drama in relationships. Everyone I...I hate all that drama in relationships. Everyone I was ever in has been drama central, and had lots of misrepresentation.<BR/><BR/>It's funny you should mention the 'open relationship' aspect in your post.<BR/><BR/>Let me tell you a funny story.<BR/><BR/>In my last relationship I ask my gal if she would be 'hip' to having the relationship 'open'.<BR/><BR/>She told me "No way, I could never stand the thought of you with another woman!" <BR/><BR/>Well guess what happened, I found out she was 'seein' a bunch of guys on the side, and I never cheated on her once, even though I had all kinds of opportunity!!!<BR/><BR/>It wasn't pretty, I was heartbroken, I also could see a lot of the signs because of my previous drama full relationships.<BR/><BR/>Never again will I put up with a womans lyin and cheatin ways, never again.Somebodies Friendhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13829397543895002523noreply@blogger.com